Singer Akothee has seen it all! From getting married at a young age to living one of the worst life experiences ever witnessed.
So far the singer’s life has become public and there is nothing Akothee keeps away from her loyal supporters; except her current, which I am very sure would entertain many!
Anyway as seen on her latest post, Akothee talks about her divorce with Jared; who happens to be the father of their 3 girls. According to Akothee, divorce is way worse than death! This is because it brings out the ugly memories and of course push and pull where children are involved.
“It’s easier said than done ,but I tell you , divorce is worse than death , especially when children are involved 🙏.I would never ever wish for any parents to divorce after living together for years and bring up their children as a family, I am not saying you stay in a toxic, violent unsatisfactory relationship, but if it ever happens that there is need to break up 🙆then please try do it discretely without involving your children🙏.”
Be mindful of your children
According to Akothee, through out the whole nasty experience; she made sure that her girls did not view their father as the Villain! However bad a situation was, she ensured to take the fall for him – just to make sure his daughters never saw the real him!
“The only medal CUP I gained is trying as much as possible to shield the enemy 💪 it was hard ,I took bullets , I broke down when bills were overwhelming,my children never saw my tears , after my divorce ,they only learnt about my struggles on social media ,when I started sharing my past . My children will never understand when I have have money or not , they have never seen me struggle 💪they think I have all solutions in the world 🤣🤣and that’s my strength. I bought them gifts every time my other children’s fathers came to visit their children with gifts,I made sure I received the gifts first💪 combine with mines and present as a family.”
Dating other men as a single woman sometimes becomes hard as anything can happen. Your children may refuse to bond with the new man or the new man might not be ready to play the role of daddy to another man’s children. Speaking about her dating life, the mother of 5 said;
I forced every man in my life to love my children equally 💔, but never asked them to call any of them daddy until OYOO WAS BORN it came automatically,They still had their biological father ,whom they Loved so much ,still love him ,they call him DAD . It was difficult at times when they insisted they wanted to talk to him, This broke me down several times ,knowing he has moved on with another family and calling him will destruct his peace and the other family might feel like I am interfering with their peace 🙏. I took them out everytime if they were not in school ,we spent all our Saturdays and Sundays on the beach .
We went to church once in a while ,since the songs sang in church would trigger the memories of the children since we brought them up in a strong church environment. 🙏 I & Jared played a part in ruining our childrens happiness while growing up ,we broke their hearts to the core 💔I know and we all know that it can never be the same ,inside them ,there are broken girls ,thank God they forgave us and we are living as a family now 🙏